ursamajor: anne with a book (bibliophilia)
To say that the fall of 2004 was a transitional time for me is an understatement.


  • I moved out of the Fenway, back to Porter Square

  • [personal profile] noghri and I broke up

  • I got my traditional breakup haircut (as much as people knock the concept, it has always come out AMAZING for me)

  • I quit my awful job

  • I fled to Hong Kong to visit my brother and recuperate from the trifecta of knockout punches

  • I stopped checking the internet because every time I did the Yankees kept beating the Red Sox and I was convinced it was because I had abandoned my beloved studio in the Fenway, not even because I'd had the audacity to date a Yankees fan for the entire year previous!

  • I checked the internet for the first time in a week on my way back from Hong Kong and the Sox had MADE A COMEBACK and a very nice Cubs fan ticket agent who understood got me on an earlier connection back to Boston

  • The Sox REVERSED THE CURSE



And while all of this was going on, a new bookstore moved in, right next door to my grocery store, a five-minute walk from my new apartment.

Porter Square Books would be there for me over the next fifteen years, even as I moved incrementally further away from Porter Square as my life changed. So many random winter afternoons and summer mornings; always the first or second stop on Indie Bookstore Day because they opened so early. Heck, so many books I would buy from them on release day because with their 7 am opening time, I could pick them up on my way to the T in the morning! I've written often in these pages about how Harvard Square Books is where I'd end my nights, in the cozy basement as the snow fell outside; maybe when they closed at 11 pm, I'd scurry up the street and grab an ice cream cone before catching the T home. Porter Square Books is its early-bird complement, where I'd grab a book from them and tea and a pastry from Cafe Zing in-house. (Zing is still looking for their next partner; I harbor secret fantasies about a performance venue.)

When I made the biggest move of all, moving home to California just before the pandemic hit, they would endure through the early pandemic years. Living proof that local independent bookstores help stitch a community together, they continued to grow, and thrive. And eventually, outgrow their current space.

When I was in Cambridge last month, of course I stopped by 25 White Street one last time, picked up one last book from Porter Square Books, White St Edition. (Ali Hazelwood's Bride, for book club.) Gazed around the familiar warm, brightly-lit space filled with books and people, people reading their purchases in the seats by the windows while munching on summer rolls; soaked the nostalgia in amid the memories of so many hours browsing and buying books there. (And then hung out at [personal profile] noghri's house with him and his family and our friends later that evening. Growth and change and transformation I couldn't see in October 2004, but hoped for, long come to fruition.)

My first year in Boston, the fall of 2000, I lived near Porter Square then, too, and I frequented the Porter Exchange where Porter Square Books is moving. Affordable onigiri for dinner from Kotobukiya upstairs, and then I would wander into the infinitesimally tiny Barnes and Noble in the basement and browse for what few books they had (because it primarily functioned as a place to sell Lesley University merch), and think that, as much as I loved bookstores, the neighborhood deserved a much better one.

And now, there will once again be a bookstore in the Porter Ex, one I love, like there always should have been. They kicked things off with a chain of several hundred patrons helping to move the romance section 1000 feet across the square, and I wish I could have been there. I can't wait to see what they do with the place; hopefully I'll be back to visit in the spring!

Welcome home, Porter Square Books.
ursamajor: Sokka is a carnivore (why are we at war again?)
I was talking with a friend about fairs yesterday, and now I'm both sad I'll be missing out on the Big E (because even though I'll be in New England next week, I'm flying home the day it starts), and enthusiastically making grandiose plans with said friend to go to the Minnesota State Fair Great Minnesota Get-Together next year, despite neither of us living in the Midwest.

I didn't grow up going to fairs; they were the province of children's fiction to me. All I knew about fairs was that there would be fried foods and thrill rides of questionable safety and contests ranging from biggest pumpkin to fattest pig to who could eat a whole pie the fastest; thanks, EB White. So when Scott basically dragged half our dorm to the Eastern States Exposition my freshman year, well, I fell in love.

Every time I went, we'd spend the majority of our time eating our way through the State Houses. Comparing clam chowders between Massachusetts and Rhode Island, comparing lobster rolls between Maine and Connecticut, eating all the maple sugar candy from Vermont, blueberry everything and loaded baked potatoes from Maine, the Finnish pancakes from Massachusetts, frozen lemonade from Rhode Island to wash it all down, along with cider and cider donuts and fried dough and kettle corn and fudge everywhere. (And of course, apple pie with cheese!) I don't think I could do a full 12 hour day there anymore, but when we went back in college and postgrad, we spread all of that eating across the entire day, and that gave us time to digest enough to go on spinny rides and not barf :)

Fast forward more than a decade since the last time I managed to make it out to Western Mass during the Big E, and the algorithm keeps showing me fair food from the Minnesota State Fair, the most recent post from Molly Yeh included. Even though my phone hasn't left the state of California since May, and the last time it was in Minnesota was over five years ago when we visited the SPAM Museum on our way across the country.

I strongly suspect it's because there was a week in August where everybody was talking ALL HOTDISHES ALL THE TIME. I knew about hotdish before that; I did date a Minnesotan, after all, and then Molly Yeh brought them into the broader cultural consciousness (at least in my foodie circles). There's even the Hot Dash in March every year where there's a hotdish festival at the finish line!

So now there's been an even more mainstream Hotdish Revival, thanks Tim Walz. Even if the ones I'm finding more intriguing are, like, Samosa Chaatdish. Or Little Moga-Hot-Dishu. Or Molly's Chinese Hotdish. Or this Tater Tot Hotdish Bowl with kimchi and bossam, though of course if I were going to turn it back into a proper hotdish of course there would be rice involved. Or Hot Tot Berbere Tater Dishinator (scroll down to Keith Ellison's contribution). Though I am not yet seeing a Filipino-inspired hotdish, peeps, does this mean I have to figure one out myself? Or a Hmong Hotdish, from Yia Vang of Union Hmong Kitchen and Vinai.

Which brings me back to drooling over the New Foods List for the fair, burnishing its reputation every year, best known for how over-the-top chefs go to make the most delicious, talked-about fair food item. I'm looking at you, "smoked sausage slices wrapped in bacon, filled with cream cheese and drizzled with barbecue sauce," the kettle-chip ice cream sandwich, the sweet corn cola float. But I'm also delighted to see:



And lutefisk bao?! I will bring my empty stomach and a Game Plan next year, Minnesota!
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I think I am pretty much doomed to never catch up.

a few days in Boston )

And then I get back Sunday afternoon and [personal profile] hyounpark greets me with "I said yes to performing at the Opera House this week, but I don't know if you've been checking your email, but I think they're assuming you're performing too because that's what happens when a married couple joins a choir?" Me: "A who in the what are we doing now?"

I'd thought our season was over. But our choral director got a last-minute call for us to close out a symposium on gun violence prevention and the role the arts can play in community healing, being done in conjunction with one of the operas San Francisco Opera is doing this season (Innocence) about the aftermath of a school shooting. So I went to Boston to recover from tech week and then came back into a surprise tech week, heh. Still very glad I did it, though. Afterwards, us singing in the stairwell of the Opera House, even more ethereal and better acoustics.

In the middle of that tech week, though, we had tickets for Sarah McLachlan at the Greek, and damn, I hope I still have those kind of pipes when I'm her age. I'd been expecting she was just going to do the songs off Fumbling Towards Ecstasy, but she began with a full set before that.

Feist opened: )

Sarah McLachlan setlist )

Somehow, this has become the month of shows - on top of our long-extant plans for SML, we saw The Lehman Trilogy last Saturday with CJ and Elana; for our part in singing in the symposium, we have tickets to go see Innocence next week; I have tickets for Iron and Wine at the Fox at the end of the month. And then my freshman year roommate messaged me a few days ago and was like, "Do you like Vampire Weekend? I've got an extra ticket for their show at the Greek." So definitely keeping busy!
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Boston friends, I’m here! Now through Saturday night. Would love to see people if you’re around. Staying in Arlington Tuesday Friday Saturday and the Seaport Wednesday Thursday. (Original post.)

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I've been busy the last little while! November update first.

New York: meandering through Manhattan on a perfect fall day, foliage, serendipitous Brompton test ride, C Pam Zhang reading, finally went up the Empire State Building after 27 years?! )

Boston: bagel delivery service, proper trains, finally getting to ride the Community Path Extension, never enough time with friends )

Stravinsky tech week )

Monterey: Hyoun runs, I find all the good food and the last remaining bookstore in Carmel, you all are shocked )

And amid all this sleep-deprived timezone confused chaos, I may have gotten into overenthusiastic bikesplaining mode with a friend of a friend on Facebook re bike infrastructure, and only realized after the fact that said person was somebody I'd gone out on a couple of dates with back in the day (🔒). ROFLMAO. Hyoun cracked up listening to me come to this realization in realtime. Me: "What, you'd been reading my LJ for three years by the time we got together and you knew me for years before that, you knew what you were getting into!" H, smiling fondly: "Sure did." Some things have changed, but clearly some things remain the same. :D

I *thought* this was going to cover November, but we're already past the 1500 word mark and I'm only up to November 13; Thanksgiving next time, I guess!
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Least flattering, most heartwarming photos of precious time with my Boston best beloveds Saturday night. Catching up since the last time (six months or four years) amid pizza devouring, cookie baking, genial mockery, and all of the laughter. We love and miss you all. 😘 (Original post has more pictures.)

ursamajor: girl and boy on swings (swing set)
It took a lot longer to return to Boston for another visit than planned.

When we last hugged everyone "until next time," it was a chilly, slushy late December week in 2019; we stayed with [personal profile] bitty and [personal profile] arfur and baked up a storm, prepping for Jewmas on our last night in town. Made it to Burdicks and Harvard Books; managed to grab bellinis and tapas with Ingrid the night we flew in and the night before she flew out; admired [livejournal.com profile] danamae's adorable and fast-growing kids; checked out the fancy new French joint with [livejournal.com profile] mrieser. Bemused the BC crowd walking into chez [personal profile] noghri and Cris with a bewildering amount of home-baked cookies (chocolate toffee classics, (passionfruit) meringue swirls, (fivespice) chocolate hazelnut baklava, (raspberry) chocolate chip cookies, and Baby Yodas based on BA's black-and-white-and-green cookies), safely maintaining my reputation of being ~juuust~ a bit extra. Hugged Bitty and Arthur goodbye Christmas morning as it began to snow, blithely declaring that of course we'd be back soon and could paint our hands on their closet then. Missed [personal profile] jpallan and [personal profile] crschmidt due to illness, but weren't too concerned; we'd catch them next time, right?

my heart, my heart; you don't have to go home in a straight line )
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8/12/23: changing this to a list citing the first time I rode each system rather than having it call dozens of images from a server that no longer exists, because the list still delights me :) and this only applies to subways and commuter rails and trains; the original checklist didn't include bus-only transit systems. One of these days I should do an updated version for every system I've added since 2006, but that'll take some time.


  1. Bay Area: BART, since birth

  2. San Francisco: Muni, since birth

  3. Vancouver: Skytrain, June 1986 for the Expo

  4. London: the Tube, August 1988, family wedding

  5. Glasgow: Glasgow Subway, August 1988, family wedding

  6. Paris: RER, April 1991, family vacation

  7. Paris: Metro, April 1991, family vacation

  8. Berlin: Berlin U-Bahn, June 1992, YMCA exchange program

  9. Brussels: Metro, June 1994, Fiddler tour

  10. Boston: MBTA, February 1995, college tour, now every day of my life

  11. Chicago: the El, August 1995, college tour

  12. Chicago: Metra, August 1995, college tour

  13. New York: New York subway, October 1996, to see Rent for a class, obviously a bajillion times since :)

  14. Miami: Miami, November 1996 with Ingrid and Gabe

  15. Salzburg: S-Bahn, May 1999, choir tour

  16. Vienna: U-Bahn, May 1999, choir tour

  17. Genoa: AMT, June 1999, choir tour

  18. Milan: Metro, June 1999, choir tour

  19. DC: Metro, August 1999, singing David Duchovny with 20-odd other fellow Philes; obviously dozens of times since.

  20. Los Angeles: Metro, February 2000, for the Vagina Monologues; definitely know it better since we started spending the December holidays here more frequently

  21. Montreal: STM, May 2002 with Alex

  22. Baltimore: MARC, January 2003, to see Andrew

  23. Philadelphia: SEPTA, August 2003, visiting Meeta

  24. Atlanta: MARTA, September 2004, for a wedding

  25. Hong Kong: MTR, October 2004, visiting my brother

  26. Shenzhen: Metro, October 2004, side trip to China

  27. New York: the Path; believe it or not, not until May 2006

  28. Toronto: TTC, August 2006, road trip with Hyoun


And I still have my Octopus Card and SmarTrip, as well as a couple of old MetroCards in my wallet. Though I don't have this month's CharliePass, since I forgot to get it before I went on vacation. Oops.

(Also, if you do this meme, its code is sucky enough that you'll want to either edit the HTML or put it behind a cut. Plus, it doesn't put them in in the order you clicked on them, nor in alphabetical order. I'm rearranging mine to reflect chronological order. :) But the premise was nifty enough for me to take it anyway!)

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